If you’re feeling stuck in anxiety, overthinking, self-doubt, or repeating the same messy patterns in relationships, even after trying therapy before, you’re not broken or alone. For many people, relational trauma comes from early experiences of feeling unseen, unsafe, or unsure in relationships, and it continues to shape how you think, feel, and relate today. It shows up as a racing mind, constant comparison, perfectionism, relationship doubt, or snapping at the people you care about most when you’re overwhelmed.
It can also show up as chasing goals that never quite feel satisfying, feeling blocked or disconnected from your creativity, or constantly pushing yourself without ever feeling at ease. You may be successful on the outside, yet feel tense, unsure, or like you’re always trying to prove something.
Understanding why this happens hasn’t been enough to change how it feels in your body or how it plays out in your life. Individual therapy at Embodied With Aloha is designed to support real, felt change, not just more insight.